When what you say is inconsistent with your actions… and when your actions are inconsistent with what you say… then it’s obvious you are not genuine. The reasons for your words and actions obviously show that you have something to hide about yourself and that’s deceitful. Be true to yourself.
"So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep even when they’re busy doing things they think are important. This is because they’re chasing the wrong things.
The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.”